Unlocking the Secret to Asking Your Partner About Sexual Health with Ease!

Hey there, beautiful people! It's time to talk about a very important but often awkward topic: sexual health. We know that talking about sex and STIs isn't always the most comfortable conversation, but it's crucial to ensure that you and your partner have a fun and safe time in the bedroom. So, let's dive into some tips on how to easily and even enjoyably bring up sexual health with your partner before getting down and dirty!

First and foremost, communication is key. Start by having an open and honest conversation with your partner about your own sexual health history. This can help create a comfortable space for your partner to share their own information and any concerns they may have. A simple " would you feel comfortable talking about sexual health before we get intimate?" 

When it comes to bringing up the topic of STIs, approach the conversation in a non-judgmental way. This can help your partner feel more comfortable and willing to share their own experiences. You can even make it a fun and educational experience by sharing interesting facts and debunking common myths about STIs.

Another great way to make the conversation about sexual health more enjoyable is to involve your partner in the process of getting tested. Schedule a testing appointment together and make a day out of it. You can even reward yourselves with a fun activity or treat afterward to make it a positive experience.

It's also important to discuss your plans for safe sex practices. This can include using condoms or other forms of contraception, as well as discussing your individual boundaries and comfort levels.

Lastly, don't be afraid to ask questions! If your partner shares information that you're unsure about, or if you're simply curious, ask away. This can help deepen your understanding of sexual health and make you both feel more comfortable and informed.

Here are some of our tips on what to ask 

 Would you be willing to talk about our sexual health before having sex?

Would you be open to discussing how both of us can feel safe and enjoy being intimate?

Would you be willing for both of us to get tested before having sex?

Can we discuss different types of protection we can use before we get intimate?

What are your boundaries and what is off limits?